A scary thought.

I've never believed in the "oneness of love".. if I did I would be content simply just to love myself..
Our love has endured over the many years that we've been together as partners in life simply because of the differences between us.
Its those differences that have made us dependable on each other to the extent that we are but all along we've managed to remain as we would like to be,two separate and unique individuals.. We are not one.
Now I sit here and wonder what will became of me if I just allow myself to became an extension of him, or his shadow.. Am I even capable of doing that.?